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Four Basic Therapy To Keep Your Spouse

Loyalty


Loyalty is the act of bringing yourself to a level of a subject even when you are a master. This attribute keep people safe around you, make them trust you, make them want to spend their precious time with you. Nobody want someone who is always bossy and feeling higher than them. 

 Peace

Nobody wants to dwell in war zone or an unfriendly environment that is a threat to their life. Peace is the act of not being worry over ranging situations. When many people are face with difficulty or challenges they tend to transfer the aggression to someone close to them. You must help yourself to always create a friendly and welcoming environment. Always remember that fighting, nagging worrying will not solve a situation but it rather make you scary to those around you.

  Love

 We genuinely love people when they less deserve it. Have you ever seeing anyone who desired not to loved? We all crave for love unfortunately we all have weakness. So concentrate less on your spouse weakness and concentrate more on his strength and then help yourself to love them in both. People always become best at what they do and at who they are when they know they are loved.
 
Correct Less

 Did I just mention that? Yes i did. You must learn not to correct every wrong of your spouse because he or she can never be perfect. Lets look at it this way, what if he or she want to correct yours? The house will automatically become a classroom with two teacher and student. You know what will happen? You both will no longer see yourself as lovers rather as classmates hence the competition. When you correct always it makes the person to focus more on their weakness and when they do they become shadow of themselves. Conclusively learn to tolerate your spouse weakness you are not a master but lover.

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