Love and relationship

How To know True Love Love is the strong bond or feelings that you have towards someone that makes you put yourself in their shoe as to understand them better than the way others do.  It is quite unfortunate that this feelings can be deceptive as such making it fake version to be more than its original version. Nowadays it is difficult to actually know if someone truly  loves you or they are just pretence.  The good news is that for every adulterated goods the original is always somewhere. When true love is not properly identified it can be mistaken for fake. Therefore this post is written to help millions out there to know true love when they finds it.  How Can I know  True Love? By words True love can not be hidden it must be expressed through words. Just as you express hatred to someone by saying words that hurt their feelings so is true love spoken. Love that can not be expressed with words is questionable. Love is not kept in the heart to s...

Depression defined in my own way as a state of emptiness in the mind. When one is empty he or she is worthless and useless. However it is good to know that no human is empty or useless. Unfortunately depression has become the order of the day. I can say the whole world is depressed. Then how can we stop depression? Here are some key to overcoming depression: Be careful of what you say What you say to people matters a lot, the human mind is designed to adapt to what ever is giving to it. So wrong words spoken to someone can go a long way to affect his or her life. Let me ask you this have you ever be complemented on how you look? How did you feel? Also have negative things be said to you about your look? How did you feel? I have come to discovered that the mind tend to retain negative words than positive. I went out few days ago everyone was complementing my look even my curves but one bus conductor said negative thing about my curves. That was a deformity that is not pronounced b...

Inevitable means something that must surely happen, that is what you can not escape. Example of life inevitable are: Death, Love, Relationship. One can't journey on the surface of the earth without coming across each of them. These make up the phase of life, as such i will be discussing them in Phases. Phase 1 (RELATIONSHIP) The first phase of the inevitable is the relationship phase, everyone must pass through relationship of one kind or the other starting from our home, most especially with siblings, parents and peers. Relationship can either be same sex or opposite sex.  The inevitable in Relationship The inevitable in relationship is ' breakage' How do people handle broken relationship or what is your state of mind and heart when you come across this in life? End of the road? I assure you that broken relationship is not the end of the road. The road you did not access can't lead you to its destination. Why should i stop half way due to injury whereby oth...

Relationship is the coming together of two or more persons in agreement to achieve common goal. Relationship is classified; business, academic spiritual marital relationships etc. Since relationship involves agreement between two or more parties, then the change of heart of one of the parties in the course of agreement is what brings broken relationship. Unfortunately when this happens, many sees it as disappointment, shame, failure which usually result to broken heart, pains,  regret etc. However no matter how painful it is, it is usually accompanied by benefits which many don't take note of. For the purpose of discuss we shall be seeing four benefits of broken relationship. Character/ lifestyle Rebuild  Character is popularly referred to as one's attitude or the way of life of individual or group of people. It is usually build overtime through circumstances and happenings. Since relationship involves two or more persons who are from different backgrounds and upbringing,...

Benefits of broken relationship: A lot of persons suffer depression from broken relationship and vow never to let themselves be used, sadly many died in the process because of pain shame and guilt. To some, relationship has become nightmare in which they wish never to see nor to confront in life. However, as relationship have good and bad side because we are not perfect so it is with broken relationship it has its own benefit. There are some benefit of important relationship which I will be discussing few. Firstly Readiness : so many are in relationship in which their partner is not ready as such that relationship must suffer friction and when it doesn't work it is an opportunity for both partners to understand themselves as to know what actually they want. The feedback I received from the questionnaire I sent to some persons who have had broken relationship in one area or the other, confirm that most relationship got broken as a result of one of the partner not ready. This po...