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How To Know True Love

How To know True Love

Love is the strong bond or feelings that you have towards someone that makes you put yourself in their shoe as to understand them better than the way others do. 
It is quite unfortunate that this feelings can be deceptive as such making it fake version to be more than its original version. Nowadays it is difficult to actually know if someone truly  loves you or they are just pretence. 
The good news is that for every adulterated goods the original is always somewhere. When true love is not properly identified it can be mistaken for fake. Therefore this post is written to help millions out there to know true love when they finds it. 

How Can I know  True Love?


By words

True love can not be hidden it must be expressed through words. Just as you express hatred to someone by saying words that hurt their feelings so is true love spoken. Love that can not be expressed with words is questionable. Love is not kept in the heart to stay it must be expressed and this usually start from words. 
You don't assume he or she loves you when they don't talk about it. Some persons will say I must not say it at all time or talk about it for too long before you know I love you. Yes it is true but how come you feel comfortable talking about all the mistakes and making corrections of minor things always and yet that same mouth can't say simple words of love? You see that love is questionable. Many can spend the whole of their time correcting your body size shape, your walking posture even down to the way you smile yet that mouth can't express simple words of love. Such love is questionable. I used to have a friend who felt expressing love with words doesn't mean in relationship so long am not cheating it shows I love him. When she finally met fiance all the words of love you can ever think of came out of her mouth she even invented new ones. So love can not be hidden without being talked about. It must flow out from within through your mouth. Some words of love such as: I love you, you mean so much to me, you are the best etc shouldn't be taken for granted.  Unfortunately some fake lovers uses this words but one thing for sure is that true love words don't wait for abundance of gift of wears, money, material things including sex before it can be expressed.


By thought


If he or she loves you his or her thoughts towards you must be pure and of good motives at all time. I know a guy that changes girls like clothes but hate to be hurt. If he has good thought towards his dates he won't behave like that. When someone loves you all his thoughts towards you gear to how to make you the better person even better than that you aspire to. He can not love you and thinking of how to get rid of you.  He or she does not dwell too long thinking about your wrongs which give birth to forgiveness easily. 

Love is willing to Adapt and Adjust 

Someone who loves you will always be willing to adapt to your ways no matter how impossible and difficult others may have seen it. He don't give up easily because he wasn't force to do so it is out of willingness. Instead of complaining he or she will be busy thinking out the way to adapt without compromising his or her love. So also if he or she is not willing to adjust from some of his ways that doesn't suit  you then that love is selfish and self centered as such it's questionable. Note: if you have not adjusted on anything nor truly adapt to your spouse then you are not yet in love. 

True Love Gives 

There is a say that you can give without loving but you can not love without giving. It might interest you to know that giving go beyond clothes, food money etc. How much time can she or he spare for you?  How much have she contributed to your success?  It is quite unfortunate that people majorly focus on the material aspect of giving to justify love. If your love is not ready to sacrifice his or her heart, time, knowledge even when it's not convinced to do so, as to see you get to the top then such love is questionable. 
Conclusively,  true love gives, it's willing to make every wrong right,  it's not under pressure and does not feel perturbed by its environmental happenings. 

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