Benefits of broken relationship:
A lot of persons suffer depression from broken relationship and vow never to let themselves be used, sadly many died in the process because of pain shame and guilt. To some, relationship has become nightmare in which they wish never to see nor to confront in life.
However, as relationship have good and bad side because we are not perfect so it is with broken relationship it has its own benefit.
There are some benefit of important relationship which I will be discussing few.
Firstly Readiness : so many are in relationship in which their partner is not ready as such that relationship must suffer friction and when it doesn't work it is an opportunity for both partners to understand themselves as to know what actually they want. The feedback I received from the questionnaire I sent to some persons who have had broken relationship in one area or the other, confirm that most relationship got broken as a result of one of the partner not ready. This point is very crucial because agreement is beyond saying or signing some pages of document it requires total and selfless commitment. When this is lacking in one of the partner he or she will feel manipulated. Therefore broken relationship help one to check the place of readiness because is another opportunity for you to check your decision. I have met a lot of persons who are thankful to God for their broken relationship experience. Most of the statement is "honestly I wasn't ready it was like I was being pushed ". But at the beginning they were hurt, so don't be carried away by the pain, gather up yourself and begin to see the beauty of it.
........Stay connected for the other points......
A lot of persons suffer depression from broken relationship and vow never to let themselves be used, sadly many died in the process because of pain shame and guilt. To some, relationship has become nightmare in which they wish never to see nor to confront in life.
However, as relationship have good and bad side because we are not perfect so it is with broken relationship it has its own benefit.
There are some benefit of important relationship which I will be discussing few.
Firstly Readiness : so many are in relationship in which their partner is not ready as such that relationship must suffer friction and when it doesn't work it is an opportunity for both partners to understand themselves as to know what actually they want. The feedback I received from the questionnaire I sent to some persons who have had broken relationship in one area or the other, confirm that most relationship got broken as a result of one of the partner not ready. This point is very crucial because agreement is beyond saying or signing some pages of document it requires total and selfless commitment. When this is lacking in one of the partner he or she will feel manipulated. Therefore broken relationship help one to check the place of readiness because is another opportunity for you to check your decision. I have met a lot of persons who are thankful to God for their broken relationship experience. Most of the statement is "honestly I wasn't ready it was like I was being pushed ". But at the beginning they were hurt, so don't be carried away by the pain, gather up yourself and begin to see the beauty of it.
........Stay connected for the other points......
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