Foolishness Or Love?

Foolishness Or Love

There is a viral saying that love is not foolishness. It is true that when you are in love your behaviour to those around sometimes look foolish. Because you behave different from who you used to be, what you used to be.

Afterthought, if we want to retain who we are we can not actually love completely because love is selfless, patient, tolerance, giving and hopeful.

Love is for those that want to be called foolish.

However love is not foolishness rather is wisdom. Let's look at the characteristics of foolishness

Characteristics of foolishness

Self centeredness
Self seeking
Self love only
Selfishness
Self wisdom

Unfortunately the above character is what 90% of people professing love exhibits because they don't want to be tagged foolish yet became the foolish one.

Dear reader if you have not in anyway sacrifice without hidden motive in your relationship with your spouse you are not yet in love, if you have not stop seeking for the best of yourself alone you are closer to foolishness, if you have not use the idea or seek the idea of someone you claim to love it is foolishness.
Let's be in love not foolishness. Loving someone doesn't make you foolish but wise.

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