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Importance of Relationship

Importance of Relationship

Everyone in life desired to be loved and cared for by others. Though there are lots of writeup about self love which are good and true, but you can't be completely satisfied with self love alone. Do you know we can only love ourselves more when we know we are truly loved by someone. We tend to go close to those that love and cherished us by desiring to do same for them, that is Relationship.

You might be wondering why so much talk on relationship. Relationship is something so important that mustn't be handled carelessly. Therefore, relationship is the coming together of two people towards satisfaction and fulfilment. Though if it purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable.

Relationship is not what one should be scared about. Because so many people has not been able to identify the importance of relationship with the opposite sex, they tend to be attracted to their male or female counterpart because their understanding of relationship has been narrowed to that. However, I won't blame them because when children are growing up they tend to look for someone who is physically like them. That is why you see the girls will have their friends to be girls and the boys same.

The society is facing challenges of homosexuality and lesbianism, it has grown worse that some countries couldn't profound solution to it and thus legalized it. This is one of the reason this content is written to help restructure the mindset of the young and those affected. Below are   some reasons of relationship with the opposite sex;

 1. For companionship

Starting from the origin of relationship which was stated in the book of Genesis; After God created everything and placed them under Adam's authority, he found out there was no suitable mate for him. Then he decided to make Eve. Looking at it Adam was occupied but he was lacking something without knowing, but His designer knew he needed some features to make him complete. Then he designed those features and put it into a woman so that his circle of creation can be complete. Sometimes I come across post of people being in relationship with their pet, then I begin to question how is that possible? Some go as far as having relationship with dolls all in the name of sex. If it was actually what would have been suitable for Adam God wouldn't have bother to create another human being. Now in reality what can you discuss with your pet business ideas, health, family issues or desires? Certainly you can't because there will be no good response. Relationship is beyond sex, even having sex with dolls you can't possibly express your feelings to it because it is not your kind. You see, this and many more vacuums God saw and decided to create your kind.

2. For meeting needs

There are lots of needs arising from our daily living which we can't meet by ourselves. These needs are naturally designed to be so. That is why one continue to feel emptiness inside as one grow up in life which need to be filled. God saw it then he began to create what will be good to meet any vacuum in his life. What Adam needed was designed and was put inside a container, that vessel would have been someone exactly like Adam, probably Adam would have named him 'Steve'.  But the vessel was woman. If it was just companionship alone, God wouldn't have gone through all that stress in creating woman. He would have just duplicate Adam. It might interest you to know that man and woman thinks, feel act and love differently. That is the fun in the world we are living, have you been opportune to see association of same sex? You will agree with me it is not same as that of both male female.

3. For fulfilment

Yes our life is complete and fulfilled in Christ Jesus. However we certainly need people in our lives to bring out the best in us. We can't completely bring out the best in ourselves, therefore we need others to do that. For every successful and fulfilled man or woman, check it there is a woman or man somewhere. It must not necessary be his mother or her father, it could be sister, mother father brother or colleague st work, even friend.

4. For Productivity

Everything that have life grows and reproduce. In what ever we do our goal is to be productive in them. Relationship with opposite sex helps you to be productive most especially in fruit of your body. If you desire to reproduce and have children, you must first have relationship with opposite sex to achieve that. Sometimes it amuses me how people want to have children yet going out with sane sex; that is confusion. Sperm can not fertilize sperm, it certainly need an egg to complete the process.
In conclusion, the above listed importance of relationship including the ones not mentioned is an eye opener that anything from this order is an abused relationship.

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