A lot of persons does not understand the meaning of wholeness. Due to this fact many has worked and traded on the wrong path. However, before letting you know the importance of being single and whole, I will define the meaning of wholeness.
Wholeness is the state of being free and not bound to anything contrary. Being single and whole therefore means you are not engaged and not in any relationship. Unfortunately many are engaged and also in relationship with other men. Though it has become a common practice but that doesn't justify the fact that is wrong and detrimental to the party involved. Subsequently the benefit of being single and whole can not be over emphasized. Below are some benefit of being single and whole.
Focus
Being single and whole helps you to be focus as to knowing who you are, your worth and who supposed and who not supposed to be in your life. Many girls are guilty of wholeness, as such they are in state of confusion. Not knowing who to please and who not to please as such they have become shadow of themselves that is the more reason for wholeness. It makes you balance and focus. Many has lost their right partner because of lack of wholeness, which brings distraction and unnecessary comparison between them their spouse and their side chick and guy.
It brings the right people to your way Many people double date with reasons known to them, but those reasons can never be justified. When you are in any relationship you are not comfortable with then quit it before accepting another person. It makes you matured and responsible.
It build trust : Many relationship and marriages are suffering from lack of trust because of how they met. If you have been victim of trust you will agree with me that 90% of it generated from lack of wholeness. In an attempt to cover up some persons will refused taking calls while with other partner and you expect him to trust you? I was in a bus a girl was answering her boyfriend call but she was lying about the direction she was coming from she then begged the driver to take her further than where she was supposed to meet him so he can believe he was actually coming from that direction. When she dropped everyone in the bus concluded she was coming from another guy's house. Then I wonder how many lie she is going to tell to sustain that relationship.
It is the fasted way to getting married; many people are still single not because of witchcraft but lack of wholeness. How many men will be happy to settle with a game player? Everyone wants to be in charge, knowing he or she is yours alone gives you the strength to fight against all odds as to protect and guilds it jealously. Conclusively, important of wholeness can not be overemphasized most especially the trust and peace that comes with it. I believe you will make decision and take the necessary discipline and beat the odds on the way as to be whole while single.
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