Four Benefits Of Broken Relationship

Relationship is the coming together of two or more persons in agreement to achieve common goal. Relationship is classified; business, academic spiritual marital relationships etc. Since relationship involves agreement between two or more parties, then the change of heart of one of the parties in the course of agreement is what brings broken relationship. Unfortunately when this happens, many sees it as disappointment, shame, failure which usually result to broken heart, pains,  regret etc.
However no matter how painful it is, it is usually accompanied by benefits which many don't take note of. For the purpose of discuss we shall be seeing four benefits of broken relationship.

Character/ lifestyle Rebuild 

Character is popularly referred to as one's attitude or the way of life of individual or group of people. It is usually build overtime through circumstances and happenings. Since relationship involves two or more persons who are from different backgrounds and upbringing, there is bound to be character difference. Most importantly as one journey in life these difference can be limited or minimize through tolerance and patient. However, tolerance and patient don't suddenly become an inbuilt in someone rather it comes through pains, circumstances overtime that was overcome for which broken relationship is one of it. 

Adequate preparation 

When relationship is broken it gives the individual involved another opportunity to be prepared. When it comes to marital relationship, few amongst the numerous are usually prepared,  some were too emotional and forget the needful. Therefore it gives you another opportunity to actually understand what you were into and what actually it should be. Moreover one or two lessons might have been learnt from it which becomes an added virtue.

Strength for weakness 

I can say weaknesses over certain character or happenings often lead to broken relationship. Since most relationship break on the platform of weakness of one of the party to overcome some short comings, such as wrong attitude and lifestyle, it becomes an opportunity for the individuals involved to build strength over such area instead of weeping and crying. But unfortunately many allowed themselves to be deceived thinking they cant be strong against such attitude and then give up as to remain a weakling.

It makes you the better you

The relationship didn't work because of some reasons or circumstances beyond control. The time of breakup gives you opportunity to have the above three benefits which them makes you the better you. Conclusively, broken relationship is not a course nor is it the end of the road rather it is a refiner that brings out the hidden gold in you. 

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