Love and relationship

Loyalty Loyalty is the act of bringing yourself to a level of a subject even when you are a master. This attribute keep people safe around you, make them trust you, make them want to spend their precious time with you. Nobody want someone who is always bossy and feeling higher than them.    Peace Nobody wants to dwell in war zone or an unfriendly environment that is a threat to their life. Peace is the act of not being worry over ranging situations. When many people are face with difficulty or challenges they tend to transfer the aggression to someone close to them. You must help yourself to always create a friendly and welcoming environment. Always remember that fighting, nagging worrying will not solve a situation but it rather make you scary to those around you.   Love  We genuinely love people when they less deserve it. Have you ever seeing anyone who desired not to loved? We all crave for love unfortunately we all have weakness. So concentrate le...

In my previous post i wrote the reasons for being single in marriage for which i stated the major reason which is CAREER. I write to profound solution to that effect. For the purpose of this writeup I am stating two ways of balancing career and marriage. 1. Commitment For marriage to work successfully and both parties not feeling sad as to resent, then commitment must be made. Do you know many people are highly committed to their job even to the extent of betraying their spouse? Now as a married woman or man courtesy demand you spend much time with your family but due to bills to be paid we easily stay at work even for months. It is true the economy is not friendly but what matter is how you sees it. The world is filled with people who want to achieve much with less resources. Nothing stops you from having good conversation with your spouse about your desire for your dream family that is now a reality. You can discuss with your spouse on how the bills should be paid and what...

Many people are married today but are living single. Unfortunately for some they don't even know they are single. We can't totally understand what it means to be single in marriage without knowing the difference between both. Before we go further to discuss the main reason of being single in marriage we will first define marriage and singleness. Singleness: This is a stage in one's life of being whole without companion. This period in adult hood is when one is so engrossed in his or herself without having fear of the feelings of others. In this stage you are your own boss, you take and make decisions without interference. It is an interesting and exciting stage in the life of every human. However, though exciting its also a stage of loneliness and having too much to carry without compulsory right of sharing it with another. Marriage Marriage is the immediate next stage after being single. It is the coming together of two individual usually a male and  a female as...

Motherhood Motherhood is the act of nursing and selflessly caring for a child as to bring him or her to maturity. This is the desire of every woman out there whether married or single. Women are naturally designed to be a mother either biologically or otherwise. In fact the best definition for motherhood is coach. One can't successfully be a mother without knowing the qualities of a mother. I will list the qualities of a mother using the acronyms " MOTHER " M..... Meek O...... Obedient T....... Tender H...... Humble E....... Ever R....... Reliable Submissiveness Submissiveness is the act of surrendering your authority deliberately to another either forcefully or willfully. As to become lesser, and servant to that person. Having known what motherhood and submissiveness is, the other thing is to know when a woman is permitted to exercise this two important aspect of her life. Looking at the qualities of a mother above you will find out that they a...

Importance of Relationship Everyone in life desired to be loved and cared for by others. Though there are lots of writeup about self love which are good and true, but you can't be completely satisfied with self love alone. Do you know we can only love ourselves more when we know we are truly loved by someone. We tend to go close to those that love and cherished us by desiring to do same for them, that is Relationship. You might be wondering why so much talk on relationship. Relationship is something so important that mustn't be handled carelessly. Therefore, relationship is the coming together of two people towards satisfaction and fulfilment. Though if it purpose is not known, abuse is inevitable. Relationship is not what one should be scared about. Because so many people has not been able to identify the importance of relationship with the opposite sex, they tend to be attracted to their male or female counterpart because their understanding of relationship has bee...

Foolishness Or Love There is a viral saying that love is not foolishness. It is true that when you are in love your behaviour to those around sometimes look foolish. Because you behave different from who you used to be, what you used to be. Afterthought, if we want to retain who we are we can not actually love completely because love is selfless, patient, tolerance, giving and hopeful. Love is for those that want to be called foolish. However love is not foolishness rather is wisdom. Let's look at the characteristics of foolishness Characteristics of foolishness Self centeredness Self seeking  Self love only Selfishness Self wisdom Unfortunately the above character is what 90% of people professing love exhibits because they don't want to be tagged foolish yet became  the foolish one. Dear reader if you have not in anyway sacrifice without hidden motive in your relationship with your spouse you are not yet in love, if you have not stop seeking for the best...

Love is not game You don't gamble to know if he loves you or not. You don't need to empty yourself before you know whether she loves you or not. You must be sure of what you wanted and ensure is what you are going for. Don't let other people opinion to totally determine his or her love. Remember only few can advice from your own perspective and view. Because everyone judge from their perspective and desire. So you must be sure of what you want before saying I do.